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Romance vs. Reality



The first time I set my eyes upon him, I thought it was "Love at first sight". Geezz, geezz... that was I thought. Ahh, well? Who would not? Hot, gorgeous, Oh crap- tantalizing eyes that took my breath away. And, lips that could launch thousand lips (tsek!tsek!) Butterflies in my stomach (flipping inside and out), Heart beats like a tambourine (tsug! tsug!) and I can't take my eyes off him (whatta me?) Huh?

The worse thing about Italians, they know that they are at the top attractive people on earth, according to the study of "Whose the most good looking, gorgeous hot specimen on earth". In the book "Eat, Pray and Love" by Elizabeth Gilbert, she described Italian as "Devishly attractive, Cruelly handsome and surprisingly muscular" (wow) And yes, I truly admit whole heartedly that I was once a victim of such cruelly handsome Italian guy (too cool to be real, as a matter of fact). But yeah, I was and yes too bad!



You know when you like someone, it seems like everything smells better, the sour foods taste even better, the darkness seems even brighter? (ha!- true!) However, too good to be true and too bad to be real. When bad things happen to a girl whose foolishly, madly, insanely tought she was in love? Very unhealthy. Foolish may be... but (oh dude, a freakin' great feeling)...
And, forgetting your own standards could be a bad sign that you become 'Fool in Love'. Was it love? (Who would think about what is and how is when your mind kept on playing his looks, his smile, his lip, his voice, his eyes? Ahh, not me--and yes, I'm a liar)


Was I too foolish to believed that he likes me like the way I liked him? Hmn, "I like what I see", that was his lines and yeah, it was flattering (*grinned*) Ooppss...if you think that two people like each other would it be 'they live happily ever after'? ( A big question mark about that happy ending?) When boy meets girl, there's a chance that boy meets another girl or girl meets another boy) Uhu? Yeah! 50-50! Chances are real and reality keeps on knocking on the tablet of your soul. Okay (meeh) Keep dreamin!

Aha! Bulls eye? (ahm- excuse my language). When you realized about everything that it happens too quick, you thought it was real-- the feeling, the attraction and oh damn the smell...! ---Uhu? Was I stupid enough to believed and listen to my own ridiculous feelings? Yeah, almost! But,-- when a person admits or true to himself about telling you straight ..., like "you only fit on my bed baby" or "Open your legs when I see you"? (Aha!) It seemed like you were at the top of Mt. Everest claiming for victory but when the wind was too overwhelming, strucked you down and rolled you like a toilet paper till cut and bruises will hurt you too deep. (Okay, what am I saying?) Nah, forget it!

(Whoah, it seemed like somebody gave you a hard punch) !! Feelings and attraction vanished, made you feel desperate to make him a punching bag......
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Comments

  1. Hi Zara, its not actually! But just wait for the right one to come! Before you meet ur prince, kiss more toads--as it says! --lol!

    Anyway----! take care!

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  2. Even you have the valentine's jitters..

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  3. probab;y its not hard to find true love...its just hard to get.
    saying from personal experience :(

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  4. Mohit: it wasn't actually finding the true love---it's the character that matters! and--finding are more difficult than looking!--lolzz!

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  5. It's funny how a certain person just took a hold of you at first sight! I was once a fool like that!

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  6. ah, love at first sight. never mind, girl. there are way too many guys out there! ;)

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  7. i have always said..

    love is a mutual understanding.

    as they say...
    it's better to take a second look always.

    take care babe

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  8. As my ole mucker Will used to say "Tis better to have loved..."

    Nice post Myse Lyke I do hope you are not coming down with the Valentne Blues?

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  9. nicely quote "But just wait for the right one to come! Before you meet ur prince, kiss more toads--as it says"

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  10. @RainGirl: yes--ur right there are many guys out there---but , some are gays and if not taken (geezzz.., just kidding) thanksss...

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  11. @BC Doan: Funny, indeed--but quite hmnn---an experience, right?

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  12. @007: yeah, a second look---and a third look, and a fourth look and over all loookkk...---geezz...---Take care!

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  13. @GeriOHara; Valentine's Blues--hmnn, guess what? I'm going to be on Valentine's Dance tomorrow night---I gonna rock and roll! --lol

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  14. the DonG: oh yeah---it's an old adage---quite ring right! hmn---tc!

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  15. actuaally dirin ako nanininwala sa love at first sight----maybe lust aat first sight---yes---coz we only see the outside when we first meet a person---we can only tell if there is love when we see the whole package~~~~

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  16. It's no secret that I am such hopeless romantic, but in all honesty, I must say that I do NOT believe in Love at first sight he! he! ribet! ribet! ;)

    Happy Valentine's Day MysLykeMeeh! Ingat lagi. :)

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  17. Is there such a thing as love at first sight, Mys? i doubt it. with me, it always take time, and even then i usually get it all mixed up. but still, im a hopeless romantic too. Hihi

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  18. For me,i think you still need to celebrate valentines day..it's just that there's really a person that is for you and meant for you only. just know how to wait..=)

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  19. Nice write-up! Italian men are very handsome -- so I speculated, good that you substantially endorsed it.
    O well, we go through the whole spectrum of emotions when in love!

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  20. @Pusang-gala: Yah, it was just a mere attraction from both sides,, i guess! lol!

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  21. @Oneother: lol---I doubt it too but when u caught up with attraction from both sides---ahem ahem---!

    take care---

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  22. @Solo: oh yeah--i went partying at night--disco disco! thanks!

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  23. @Rhett: Was I in love with him? Geezz..geezz--did I totally randomly accepted it? lol! take care---

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  24. wow..you are really in love with him? hmmnn...

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  25. @Estella: Hahaha---(I've gotta laugh at that) lol!---hahahahaha!

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